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2007/11/29

Wrong Color, Wrong Place, Wrong Time?

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@ 07:23 PM (7 months, 9 days ago)

These days getting killed on the streets of Chicago appears to depend on ones address and apparently skin color. Two women in recent weeks Theresa Bunn who was 21 years old and eight months pregnant was found strangled and burned in a garbage binn. Another woman Hazel Lewis, 52 years old was found strangled and burned in a trash binn, same neighborhood. Another young woman Deanna Glass, 14 years old, from the same neighborhood is also missing.  If you count the unborn child that is four lives, that we know of, who knows there are probably more. And there is still the unsolved murder of Nailah Franklin who was found murdered and burned in a forest preserve.

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2007/11/28

So Very Precious : Riley Ann Sawyers

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@ 06:58 AM (7 months, 10 days ago)
 

The Galveston County Daily News

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2007/11/27

Theresa Parker 911 Dispatcher and Cops Wife Still Missing "Without a Lead"

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@ 05:18 AM (7 months, 11 days ago)

It has been eight months now, a number of law agencies still continue searching for police officer wife and missing 911 dispatcher Theresa Parker. So far, there have been no arrests in the case and no sign of Theresa but her family refuses to give up hope. And now with the light beaming on the Stacy Peterson case, perhaps more efforts and attention can be focused on Theresa Parker.  Maybe the FBI can provide assistance in finding her as well.
This will be the first holidays for Parker's family without her. And they have noticed the eerie similarities to the Stacy Peterson case in Illinois.

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2007/11/25

A Warning Label For Dating

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@ 04:43 PM (7 months, 13 days ago)

Our clothes, medicine, equipment and just about everything else comes with a label.  Now, we have reached a period in society, that same "warning" or instruction should also come when dating.

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2007/11/24

Help is a Phone Call Away

If you are a victim of domestic violence it is important to speak to someone first, prior to leaving.  Having a road map will empower you on your journey. Assistance is available to everyone.  

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2007/11/21

News Coverage and Those "Media Darlings"

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@ 02:01 AM (7 months, 17 days ago)
 
Who should we really be thinking about when we hear someone is a person of interest?  Watch to learn more.
 
 

 

2007/11/20

Why Does Drew Peterson Need A Lawyer?

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@ 01:25 AM (7 months, 18 days ago)

Peterson outside

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2007/11/19

Drew Peterson & Philip Murphy: Till Death do Them Part?

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@ 02:23 AM (7 months, 19 days ago)

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An abuser never changes their tune.  In the case of Drew Peterson, clearly his actions behind closed doors is that of a very clever, abusive, controlling, manipulative individual who just happened by accident, to be a cop. This case should not imply that police officers are abusive.  Quite the opposite.  The ones that abuse their families place a heavy burden and stigma on those who so bravely protect our streets 24/7. 

Should authorities consider calling in the FBI on the disappearance of Stacy Peterson? Absolutely!   They need to pull in the 25 year and over law enforcement veterans to assist in this case.  Perhaps even a profiler.  The person who cracks this case must be of the same mind set as Drew Peterson, meaning a guy who knows how to out think the criminals. 

In my opinion, I don't believe he set out to harm her.  Meaning it was not pre-meditated. I believe he loved her very much.  It was likely they got into a heated battle and things spun out of control. He followed and taped her every move.   When Drew Peterson said she left and she is where she wants to be there is clearly a message in his words.  We know she hasn't used her cell phone and if it is ever located you can bet it will have already been disarmed.   She has not used a credit card. She supposedly took twenty-five thousand dollars in cash. Hardly likely. Her car was found at the airport which is within 5-8 minutes walking distance from the Peterson residence. 

No one has really been able to pin point with much accuracy, any type of a time line, except for the one-sided  dribbled mechanicaly produced story by Drew Peterson.

Not once has Peterson made an attempt to look or sincerely ask publicly that she return home.  Why? Because she can not.  He has labled the tragedies as "incidents".  A pill box way of text book response when one is attached to the event or crimes .   

He has already made arrangements with family members regarding the kids.  His plan is in place no matter what the outcome.  And doesn't anyone find it odd, that his words and actions have never once included that of Stacy Peterson.

As the daughter of  former police detective, Philip Murphy, I feel as though my father has been resurected into the body of Drew Peterson. In comparing objectively, the two men, watching as a spectator with the rest of the world,  they are in my opinion, identical.  With one exception, that my mother was found and properly laid to rest, Stacy Peterson is still out there somewhere and we must find her!

 


 

2007/11/18

Domestic Violence Protecting Yourself-You Need A Safety Plan

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@ 07:20 AM (7 months, 20 days ago)

With the spotlight beaming down on the issue of domestic violence in the past year, in particular, with the disappearance of Stacy Peterson, Lisa Stebic, the unsolved murder of Nailah Franklin and so many others, if you are in an abusive relationship, it is important that you have a game plan. 

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2007/11/15

Lets Find Stacy Peterson

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@ 06:41 AM (7 months, 23 days ago)

Stacy Peterson, a mother of two, was reported missing to the Illinois State  Police early Monday after she failed to meet her sister Sunday to help paint a  house. Her husband, Bolingbrook Police Sgt. Drew Peterson, 53, said he last  saw her about 10 a.m. Sunday, and last spoke with her about 9 p.m. Sunday when  she called on her cell phone to say she was leaving him. An undated photo provided by her family shows Stacy Peterson, 23 (center) of Bolingbrook, Ill., with her son, Anthony, and her younger sister Cassandra Cales. Peterson, the wife of Drew Peterson, a sergeant with the Bolingbrook Police Department, was reported missing Oct. 29, 2007. 

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Tragic: Officer Kills Wife, Self in Front of Children

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@ 06:33 AM (7 months, 23 days ago)
            The Kids were home when their cop dad killed Mom. Then he turned the gun on himself .   javascript:NewWindow(780,600,window.document.location+'&Template=photos');
Police tape marks the area off limits at the scene of a murder-suicide in the Town of Highlands yesterday where a Port Authority policeman shot and killed his wife and himself.

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2007/11/14

New Poster "Boy"

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@ 08:35 PM (7 months, 23 days ago)

The Peterson case(s) because there are two alledged victims, has made Peterson, who moments ago resigned from the Bolingbrook Police Department the "National Poster Boy" for narcissitic passive aggressive behavior. For years that title was held solely by Charles Stewart, the Boston man who murdered his lawyer wife on October 23, 1989 and accused someone else of the crime.  Ultimately, he took his own life.  But if you recall Stewart behaved in the same way as Peterson, in every interview, cold and without any emotion.  The Cowardly Former Officer Drew Peterson now holds the title.  And proudly, I might add.

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Manhunt Sought For Joaquin Rangel Ramirez

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@ 06:37 AM (7 months, 24 days ago)
 
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Joaquin Rangel Ramirez

 

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May Former Police Chief Huber Never See Daylight

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@ 06:22 AM (7 months, 24 days ago)
Ken Huber Appears in Court Huber shot his wife in cold blood.  This tin badge piece of garbage was also having an affair with State's Attorney Jennifer Lowrie who by the way was on the crime scene prior to police arriving after he shot Pam Huber. The criminal complaint against Ken Huber shows that after dialing 911, he called Lowrie, who admitted in the complaint to having had a sexual affair with Ken Huber. She arrived at the scene before law enforcement or EMS personnel, walked through the crime scene and was handed the phone to talk to the 911 operator, court documents state.

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2007/11/13

A Lot At Stake For The Bolingbrook Police Department?

@ 07:22 AM (7 months, 25 days ago)

A Police Officers wife, her name, Kathleen Savio made numerous attempts to get legal protective assistance from her abusive husband, Drew Peterson.  She told anyone who would listen, that her life was in serious danger. She sent letters to the State's Attorney's office and she informed her family as many victims do, "if something happens to me, it will not be an accident."  The irony of this woman, a mother of two beautiful boys, a sister, and  friend to many, is that her cries for help were clearly ignored.  The wheels of justice reversed for Kathleen Savio.  When she sought out  assistance, it was she who would be arrested by the Bolingbrook Police Department.  We serve and protect took on a new meaning as it does for so many others across the country married to those tin men in blue who terrorize their own families. Kathy Savio paid the price with her life.  And now, in my opinion, as her body is scheduled to be exhumed in the morning for possible evidence that will ultimately lead to the arrest and conviction of the only person capable of her death, Drew Peterson.  I also wonder if those who turned away when Kathy Savio asked for help, if they too, are having a few sleepless nights.  Afterall, they are just as responsible.

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2007/11/11

Stacy Peterson:Courageous Young Woman & Mother Takes Control of Her Life!

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@ 05:15 PM (7 months, 27 days ago)

This morning spattered across the front page of the Chicago Sun-Times..in big bold block letters "WHAT WAS SHE DOING WITH HIM?  My head was spinning as I read the article with my morning coffee.  Why? In my opinion Stacey Peterson is being placed on a national public serving platter like a turkey at thanksgiving being plucked away about her less than perfect childhood as an explanation for why someone like "this" marries men such as Drew Peterson.

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2007/11/10

Former KY Cowardly Tin Deputy Charged In Wife's Murder

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@ 05:34 AM (7 months, 28 days ago)
http://www.blogstream.com/gallery.mod?G=strangephraseindeed&RT=strangephraseindeed&PRID=18462&IID=24079&IMG=24079_18462.gif Sadly, here we are, once again.  An officers wife unable to receive assistance is murdered.  A special division must be created to successfully deal and address abuse within Law Enforcement Families across the country. If the police unions such as the FOP were so concerned about their members they would welcome the opportunity to deal with the epidemic among the "Blue Brotherhood".     

http://www.wkyt.com/home/headlines/11115681.html# 

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2007/11/9

Officer Drew Petersons Children Are In Danger

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@ 03:58 PM (7 months, 29 days ago)
While the world is capturing Drew Peterson on video as he is taking two of his young children from their car seats while talking and exhibiting disturbing behaviors.  Why isn't anyone removing these children from his care until the case is resolved.  In my opinion, this dangerous behavior just might  cause the children serious life threatening bodily harm.  He could hold them hostage should further information or an attempt to arrest him occur.  He is in no condition at the moment to have custody of these kids.  The states' attorney in Will County and child protective services must step in immediately.  It is evident Drew Peterson has or is on the verge of snapping and if he does God help us all he's going to take those children with him.  
Please email your comments to: AbuseofTheBadge@aol.com
 

2007/11/8

Bolingbrook Police: We Serve and Sleep

@ 04:10 PM (8 months, 3 hours ago)

To Serve and Protect clearly was not followed within the rank and file of the Bolingbrook, Illinois Police Department.  In failing to do their jobs, they have caused additional casualties.  A look away mentality with one or more of their own.  A sloppy death investigation.  In this tight knit police department many,if not all knew that Drew Peterson was dating and having a relationship with a minor.  Kathy Savio had a court order of protection and police had been at their home on numerous occasions. 

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Coward Cop Huber Charged in Pam Huber's Murder

@ 05:55 AM (8 months, 13 hours ago)

Ken Huber, 41, is charged with first-degree murder and first-degree manslaughter for shooting his wife once in the head with a .40-caliber pistol on Oct. 28 in their Highmore home while her 11-year-old daughter slept next to her. Pamela Huber, 46, died Friday at Avera McKennan Hospital in Sioux Falls after her family took her off life-support.

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Drew Peterson On The Hot Seat

@ 05:19 AM (8 months, 14 hours ago)

Kathy Savio was Drew Peterson's third wife and today for approximately two hours the Officer appeared before the Will County grand jury regarding her death. Although her case has not yet been re-opened this is a step in the right direction.  Laws have changed and a grand jury finding could possibly allow the death Kathy Savio-Peterson to be re-investigated.

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2007/11/7

Is Officer Drew Peterson A Scared Coward?

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@ 12:50 AM (8 months, 1 day ago)
  Peterson outside (This is the lovely officer strutting his macho side) In Greek the name Andrew means masculine.  Clearly, this coward does not have an ounce of manhood in his entire body.  Otherwise, he would simply tell people where Stacy can be located.  I am remined of a similar case in Georgia of Theresa Parker a 911 operator who also went missing in the same way.  Sam Parker a police officer has been removed from active duty.  He too, states, knowing where she went.  And police have yet to locate her body.   Cowards control, abuse and harm those in their lives.  And in my opinion, Peterson is no different.  I received a private email indicating that I will owe Mr. Coward an apology when all is said and done.  I have no aplogy for such a piece of trash.  The fact that he began dating this child, yes, child at the age of 16 says it all.  This officer exhibits unstable behaviors and in my opinion, a serious threat to our community. Please email your comments to: AbuseofTheBadge@aol.com   Be a man Peterson, tell us where Stacey is!   His side: Sgt. Drew Peterson
Their side: Stacy Peterson's family
http://www.topix.com/wire/city/bolingbrook-il


http://gretawire.foxnews.com/tag/sgt-drew-peterson/

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2007/11/6

Yet Another Pathetic Officer Murders Wife-Kills Self

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@ 04:31 PM (8 months, 2 days ago)

The continued soap opera of the Drew Peterson case has clouded other police officer murders from being placed where they belong, in the spotlight.  Each of these cases deserves attention in hopes that others whose cries for assistance don't end up in a tragedy.

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2007/11/5

Officer Peterson Serves, Protects and Gets Away With Murder?

@ 06:16 AM (8 months, 3 days ago)

Over the weekend in Bolingbrook a large number of wonderful people came out to look for Stacy Peterson.  Neighbors questioned have been quoted a saying Stacy told them personally- "I'm leaving my husband, if something happens to me it is no accident".  In the next few weeks we can expect to see a court order for the body of wife #3 to be exhumed.  Heads will role as soon as things calm down in the disappearance of Stacy.  We will see Officers and County employees' resign, get fired or face serious charges in the bath tub drowning of Petersons former wife and their negligence in proper investigation .  My guess: This will also include within the  next six to twelve months the indictment by a grand jury after evidence is presented for Drew Peterson, who will stand trial for murder.   . 

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2007/11/3

High Ranking Officer Huber Center of Attention in Wife's Murder

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@ 04:35 PM (8 months, 5 days ago)

Pam Huber died yesterday in a South Dakota Hospital.  Yes, she had an order of protection against her husband.  He shot her in front of their child.  As of this post he has not yet been charged for her murder.  She had not place to turn when abusive episode's exploded in their home. Why?  Because he was the Chief of Police.  This pathetic tin badge coward murdered his wife like hunter after his prey. 

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2007/11/2

Now Serving: Diarrhea of the Mouth

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@ 04:24 PM (8 months, 6 days ago)

Since when is it alright for a crime victim or a missing person to have their family history or personal hurdles blasted like bright headlights in the media?  In the case of missing police officer wife Stacy Peterson she is a mother, someone' sister, aunt, relative and friend.  First and foremost she is in my opinion a crime victim.  Stacy lived her life under the heavy weight of an abuser capable of anything including bodily harm and yes, death.  Stacy was followed constantly, the word is stalked like a hunters prey prior to the kill. And she had every right to fear for her own life based on the fact that another wife died in a highly suspect way.  As many profiled abusers Drew Peterson is a classic.  Where are the psychological expects hiding?  Surely they can shed some light and yet for now they are no where to be found.  I suspect we will all hear from them once the case is solved like bad diarrhea of the mouth.

For the media to even report in the first few sentences of their story the missing woman's mother left, or that her sister died of cancer or her brother has a checkered past has no place in this or any crime victims situation.

In my opinion, Officer Peterson is clever like a sly fox guarding the few crumbs of his hen house before the final dark egg hatches.  He is after all, a classic text book case of an abuser.  The media needs to educate the public on these types of criminals.  With a rash of recent murders in the state of Illinois and across the country we must put a halt to this ticking time bomb of an age old issue that has been allowed to live like a contagious fungus since the beginning of time.  Call it what you will abuse, domestic violence, stalking, control, the fact is, it is a crime.  Women whose cries for help fall on deaf ears and those were passed with a pen of not ink, but red human blood.  This deadly trend will continue, children will become motherless and society will forever find blame with the victims, unless we begin to understand these crimes and act accordingly.

Story from the Sun-Times....................................................

Stacy Peterson might come home again to Bolingbrook after blowing off some steam. Or she might not. Her mother hasn't yet, her son-in-law says, and she left eight years ago.

"I believe she's either going to tell people where she is or she's going to go down deeper, like how her mom did," said Peterson's husband, Bolingbrook police Sgt. Drew Peterson.

Drew Peterson, 53, said this isn't the first time his 23-year-old wife split on him. She had taken off on him before, he said, when their children or he got to be too much.

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2007/11/1

Officer Peterson Serves the Country Burnt Breakfast

@ 03:18 PM (8 months, 7 days ago)

Front page headlines with morning in the Chicago SunTimes is a photo of a young teenage child bride with a graying past his prime officer Peterson in his uniform.  The story presents two sides her family and of course his account or "grim delusional tale" of events relating to her disapperance.  The case is making front page news across America.  Something up until just a few short years ago would never have been printed.  Family members state he followed her 24/7.  So that indicates she was being stalked, daily.  And she told her family she had fallen out of "love" with her husband. I also see that Stacy looks identical to wife #3 in facial features from photo's.  Officer Peterson is quoted as saying "I've lead an honorable life and people are looking at me sideways. It hurts."  Well buddy I have news for you, the world is now looking.  Another life lost, as all read or skim over tragic stories like this with our morning coffee.   

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Officers Wife Is Missing With A Foul Smell in The Air

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@ 05:54 AM (8 months, 7 days ago)

Like a bizzare episode from the old television show Twin Peaks, Officer Peterson a 29 year veteran with the police department is trying to convince the world that his missing wife left him for another man.   Stacy has two small children ages 2 and 4.  Mothers with young children are not likely to just up and leave their kids.  When wife #3 was found dead in a bath tub, and she had obtained a court order of protection against Peterson. The police did not have enough evidence at the time to charge anyone with murder.  Now there are reports swirling around like a bad piece of burnt toast.  Officer Peterson is now saying his wife's mother up and left when Stacy was 15 years of age and has never been seen since.  The Officer indicated it runs in the family.  The Law Enforcement email and commentary information sites are having a field day with this one.  They all believe the Officer had something to do with Stacy Petersons disappearance and all wished and pray for her safe return, if that is even possible at this point.  And the special investigator appointed on this case is re-opening wife #3's "accidential death."  In cases like these it is very difficult for me to remain nuetral when so much points to Officer Peterson.  I pray to God that she just shows up.  But, someone like this doesn't just disappear into thin air. In my opinion, she would have contacted her family so they would  not worry and most importantly, she would have taken her children!

http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/chi-peterson01_webnov01,0,1236207.story?coll=chi_tab01_layout

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