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2007/11/27

Theresa Parker 911 Dispatcher and Cops Wife Still Missing "Without a Lead"

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@ 05:18 AM (9 months, 7 days ago)

It has been eight months now, a number of law agencies still continue searching for police officer wife and missing 911 dispatcher Theresa Parker. So far, there have been no arrests in the case and no sign of Theresa but her family refuses to give up hope. And now with the light beaming on the Stacy Peterson case, perhaps more efforts and attention can be focused on Theresa Parker.  Maybe the FBI can provide assistance in finding her as well.
This will be the first holidays for Parker's family without her. And they have noticed the eerie similarities to the Stacy Peterson case in Illinois.

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2007/11/10

Former KY Cowardly Tin Deputy Charged In Wife's Murder

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@ 05:34 AM (9 months, 24 days ago)
http://www.blogstream.com/gallery.mod?G=strangephraseindeed&RT=strangephraseindeed&PRID=18462&IID=24079&IMG=24079_18462.gif Sadly, here we are, once again.  An officers wife unable to receive assistance is murdered.  A special division must be created to successfully deal and address abuse within Law Enforcement Families across the country. If the police unions such as the FOP were so concerned about their members they would welcome the opportunity to deal with the epidemic among the "Blue Brotherhood".     

http://www.wkyt.com/home/headlines/11115681.html# 

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2007/9/28

Memo :To Pittsburgh Police Union President

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@ 06:42 AM (11 months, 7 days ago)

Dear Mr. Malloy,

It appears you are in denial of a very serious epidemic among officers in this country who abuse the powers of the badge within their own homes.  You sir, need to get yor head out of your behind.  Many Officers wives do not come forward for fear they will be killed.  If you were able to interview wives of those officers within your fraternal order and guarantee their safety, the majority of the spouses would inform you, sir, they fear for their lives.  Yes, fear. 

You are assuming that the Officers within your union behave like model citizens.  And perhaps a few do, but for those cowardly cops who terrorize their wives and children, extra measures must be in place to keep them safe from harm.

Why not consider embracing this new policy.  Who knows you might even save a life or two in the process.  And isn't that what the Officers in your Fraternal Order took an oath to do?  I believe it says "We will serve and protect". 

Think about that for a moment.  I will await your response.   

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The Pittsburgh police union says a domestic violence policy proposed Tuesday for police employees comes with ridiculous requirements and unfairly holds them to higher standards than other city workers.

"It's just a matter of a sense of fair play," said James Malloy, president of Fraternal Order of Police Fort Pitt Lodge No. 1. "This has just gotten out of control here. We don't have an epidemic of officers abusing their spouses."

"(Domestic violence) is something that is a clear and obvious problem in our community," said City Council President Doug Shields, who proposed the policy at yesterday's council meeting. "To me, domestic violence is the wellspring of a lot of bad things that happen in our society."

Shields said his proposal "is not an indictment of police," but noted that officers nationwide are more likely to be involved with domestic violence in their personal lives than other citizens.
Under the proposed law, all police bureau employees would be required to tell their supervisors immediately if they are under investigation for domestic violence and report co-workers who they believe might be abusive. Employees who do not report it immediately could be fired.

The ordinance gives lengthy definitions of what is considered abuse and reportable actions, including physical or sexual abuse, intimidation, psychological or emotional abuse -- mind games, threats, undermining another's sense of self-worth or name-calling -- and economic abuse, such as total control of finances or forbidding someone to go to school or work.

Supervisors would be required to report "warning signs" of possible domestic violence, such as a high number of physical or verbal altercations, inappropriate treatment of animals, injuries or "excessive phone calling" as a way to monitor and control others.

Malloy said the policy would force police employees to make judgments about co-workers' behaviors and report even routine grumblings about something a spouse did or did not do. An officer who argued with his wife in public about a movie would be required to tell his bosses that he had been investigated if another officer had asked them what was going on, Malloy said.

Shields said the proposed ordinance is modeled after a policy developed by the International Association of Chiefs of Police, a 20,000-member nonprofit. While those accused of domestic violence but not convicted would keep their jobs, they likely would not be promoted, he said.

The proposed law stems from a public outcry that followed the June promotions of three police officers with allegations of domestic violence or disturbances in their pasts. None was convicted.

The proposal also would help prevent domestic violence on the force, because it calls for stricter screening during the hiring process and more intervention when warning signs are seen, Shields said.

Malloy said one officer, whom he declined to identify, is under a protection from abuse order filed by a former girlfriend and a judge's order that he cannot have a gun in his house. The officer must leave his gun at the station when he is off-duty, he said.

"All he did was get into a verbal dispute with a past girlfriend. She claims he threatened her," Malloy said. Other officers have been named in protection from abuse orders, but none resulted in criminal charges in the past 12 years, he said. Some of those were filed as part of divorce cases, he said.

Shirl Regan, executive director of the Women's Center and Shelter of Greater Pittsburgh, praised the policy and said she supports all the provisions.

"It's just a beginning," she said.

Karen Roebuck can be reached at kroebuck@tribweb.com or 412-320-7939.