Susan Murphy-Milano...

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2008/2/12

Boston Police Correcting Officer Involved Weapons Policy

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@ 05:00 AM (21 months, 4 days ago)

Boston Police Commissioner Edward F. Davis briefed clergy members at police headquarters yesterday.Boston Police Commisioner 

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2008/2/5

Update: No Honor in Murdering of 3-Month Old Child

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The world view's the photo of yet another bright beautiful baby, murdered by someone who released themselves into a female the year before, most likely under the influence, producing life.  This pathetic producing sperm bank murdered the child beyond recognition. And now as Mullis faces what will be a permanent home behind bars I was more curious as to why he just didn't take his own life? Why did he even bother turning himself in? There is no glory or honor on this earth or in heaven for such crimes we are all witnessing in quick succession of one another across the country.  No social services agency or any other outreach type of service could have predicted or prevented such a murder.  When instead of a prison facility, Mullis should be sentenced to a criminal and behavioral experimental laboratory where he can be studied and then his brain dissected for further research.  

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2007/11/20

Why Does Drew Peterson Need A Lawyer?

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@ 01:25 AM (23 months, 28 days ago)

Peterson outside

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2007/11/18

Domestic Violence Protecting Yourself-You Need A Safety Plan

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With the spotlight beaming down on the issue of domestic violence in the past year, in particular, with the disappearance of Stacy Peterson, Lisa Stebic, the unsolved murder of Nailah Franklin and so many others, if you are in an abusive relationship, it is important that you have a game plan. 

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2007/11/11

Stacy Peterson:Courageous Young Woman & Mother Takes Control of Her Life!

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@ 05:15 PM (24 months, 7 days ago)

This morning spattered across the front page of the Chicago Sun-Times..in big bold block letters "WHAT WAS SHE DOING WITH HIM?  My head was spinning as I read the article with my morning coffee.  Why? In my opinion Stacey Peterson is being placed on a national public serving platter like a turkey at thanksgiving being plucked away about her less than perfect childhood as an explanation for why someone like "this" marries men such as Drew Peterson.

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2007/4/4

Finally, Arrest in Made in 911 Dispatcher Case

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@ 03:32 AM (31 months, 18 days ago)

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,263642,00.html#

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2007/2/10

A Plea to The Fraternal Order of Police

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@ 02:17 PM (33 months, 11 days ago)
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It's okay, I am a police officer and I have the self appointed right, because I have been issued a gun and a big tin badge, providing me the ultimate power, to murder my wife.  You see gentlemen, my fellow comrade's in blue, she wants to end our marriage. And I have the power to end her life.  This is the third such suicide in this police department within a 12 month period.  Obviously, it is not enough to have an employee assistance division within police departments, because it is not effective. This "cookie cutter" mentality among law enforcement departments across the country must structure a program that deals with officers and their families as a unit.  Police unions must get their heads out from under the caves they inhabit and begin providing real solutions to this deadly problem within their own "blue walls".  There are many ways to be effective and assist officers and families. Experts who can assist in providing real change and save lives.  A good place to start is within the Fraternal Order of Police, they have the power to be agents of change.

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2007/1/12

A Made For TV Police Tragedy Coming to A Broadcast Near You

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@ 04:18 AM (34 months, 10 days ago)

Lights, Camera, Action! I am all for the media covering court cases and doing their jobs.  But couldn't the show producers of 48 hours think of something better then the Robert Vanaman case.  I mean, please, a loving mother, gunned down, in her own home, helpless to defend herself against her police officer husband.  She wanted out of the marriage, Robert Vanaman lets her out by murdering her.  Then he self inflicts wounds to make it look like an act of self-defense.  In addition, a judge allows this former officer of the law to make bail and be with his children.  Oh, I forgot the Judge also orders counseling for he and the kids.  The Judge is the one who should consider counseling. Barbara's family attempted to get custody of the children, but, they were denied.  During this very painful and confusing time the last place the two boys should be is with this man.  Their father who took an oath to serve and protect and didn't think the law applied to him.  Self defense? Insanity perhaps? No different from the thousands of other police officers in this country who have murdered their wives and in many cases committed suicide.  Where is child protective service in this case? Obviously, they too, are invisible or deaf.  This case screams loud and clear, along with so many others who have lost their lives like Crystal Brame or Carli Dennis, Anna Burns, Sandy Etter, Serena Gomez, Kimberly Mount, Anna Rodriguez, that we must implement more then a judge banging their gavel without really understanding Officers who murder their partners.  Support programs and the enforcement of laws and mental health services must go hand in hand for officers and their families. 

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2007/1/9

Officers Finally Fired in Murder-Suicide

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@ 02:27 AM (34 months, 13 days ago)
The four officers who failed to perform their duties in November, finally arrested, after an investigation had more to do with public pressure than anything else.  The attoney generals office, family and womens groups were the real success in the ultimate officers'
firing.  And the department had a deep inbeded fried egg on their faces.  They had no choice.  Come to think of it, neither did the victim, whose cries for help fell on deaf ears. 
May God keep the children, safe and healthy as they wake each day, trying to understand why they mother, was murdered.
 
Ohio- Fayette County Sheriff Vernon Stanforth has fired four deputies, saying they delayed the arrest of a former auxiliary deputy who one week later fatally shot his wife and himself.
 
Although the arrest delay did not appear to contribute to the murder-suicide, an internal investigation showed the four failed to perform their duties, Stanforth said. Three of the four also face criminal charges.
 
Deputy Patricia Bailey, the sister of the suspect, was dismissed on Thursday, followed on Friday by Deputies Ernest Jackson Jr., Terry Olsen Jr. and John Hyer.
 
"Each chose their course of action that night which either allowed or encouraged the events that took place and must now face the consequences of those actions," Stanforth said in a statement.
 
Bailey, Jackson and Olsen have pleaded not guilty to charges of dereliction of duty, a misdemeanor. They are accused of failing to stop Bailey's brother, John Bailey, from vandalizing his home and arrest him Oct. 25. The trial is set for February in Fayette County Common Pleas Court.
 
Jackson and Olsen had gone to Bailey's home to serve a civil protection order sought by his wife, Lori. The order required him to leave the home and for deputies to seize any guns.
 
Hyer, formerly a corporal and shift supervisor, called the off-duty Patricia Bailey to alert her, Stanforth said. She went to the home and stopped Jackson and Olsen from removing all the guns, Stanforth said.  Three of the four officers, fired:
 
 
The three were in the house when John Bailey then smashed windows, ripped out wires and painted walls, authorities said.
 
Bailey was charged the next day with violating the protective order and damaging the home. Hyer resigned from his rank as corporal to become a deputy.
 
Bailey kidnapped his wife from the home of their children's baby sitter Nov. 1, fatally shot her in a rural barn and then killed himself, authorities said.
 
The sheriff's office now has about a dozen deputies for road patrols.
 
 
 

2006/12/20

The Video tells the whole story..Bad Cop

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@ 03:25 AM (35 months, 3 days ago)
In a place called Flagler Beach, Florida, one police officer was removed of his police powers pending an investigation, arrested for lying about a case involving of all things, the daughter of State Attorney John Tanner. And the entire horrible ordeal has been captured on tape: Video: Video Shows State Attorney's Daughter Being Restrained By Deputies.  I have no idea how the news station obtained a copy of this, but thank God they did.  I am sure this is not Officer Juratovac first brush with abusive behavior.  From the video, he is a dangerous pro at victimization. 

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