Susan Murphy-Milano...

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2008/1/25

Estranged Wife's Murder-Suicide Note: 'That's your son saying bye-bye, Dada'

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@ 02:49 AM (7 months, 16 days ago)

Here is a great post from radio host Glenn Saks.  I realize, all too often I post and author stories mostly by men who commit domestic violence, stalking and murder related crimes against family members.  Why?  Because in this country 95% of the domestic violence crimes and murders are at the hands of males.  Many of late have also been from Law Enforcement and I highlight these cases as a way to bring an understanding on this issue that continues to occur behind closed doors.  But, it does go both ways, the anger , rage, power, control that leads to murder of an innocent child and a father left behind to live each day without his only son, as you will read below.............

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2007/11/15

Tragic: Officer Kills Wife, Self in Front of Children

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@ 06:33 AM (9 months, 27 days ago)
            The Kids were home when their cop dad killed Mom. Then he turned the gun on himself .   javascript:NewWindow(780,600,window.document.location+'&Template=photos');
Police tape marks the area off limits at the scene of a murder-suicide in the Town of Highlands yesterday where a Port Authority policeman shot and killed his wife and himself.

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2007/8/22

Is someone helping our kids kill themselves?

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@ 04:59 AM (12 months, 22 days ago)

Suicide is the eighth leading cause of death for all persons regardless of age, sex or race; the third leading cause of death for young people aged 15 to 24; and the fourth leading cause of death for persons between the ages of 10 and 14. The rates of youth suicide had been declining since 1994, but the numbers are rising dramatically. Are the good intentions of the FDA to blame?

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2007/1/22

Off-Duty Detroit Cop Shoots Self After Fight With Husband

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@ 02:34 AM (19 months, 24 days ago)
Suicide is not the answer cop or not when your distraught.  The pain you leave behind to those who must go on with their lives without that person is devastating. People who take their own lives often do not think about what they are doing.  Because the individual is in a very deep depression all they see is ending what they feel is very painful and unbearable life. 

DETROIT -- An off-duty police officer died Friday after she shot herself following an argument with her husband, who is also a Detroit police officer.

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2006/6/11

On A Serious Note: Respondents Needed For a Survey on Suicide Loss

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@ 04:46 AM (27 months, 9 days ago)

Respondents Are Needed For a Survey on Suicide Loss

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2006/4/17

Police Officer Fires Gun as Anna Burns Screams out to Children to Run

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@ 05:47 AM (29 months, 4 days ago)
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It could have been a lot worse if Anna Burns didn't scream out for her two children to flea the house and save themselves, they too, would have been killed.  Again and again we read these stories with the same tragic ending.  Most often, in the life of a police officer when you strip him of what he loves best and knows violence erupts like a volcano in the homes of law enforcement across the country. Could something have been done by the Sheriff's Department?  According to information and prior incidents of calls to the home, Yes. When you take away an officer's  badge, you take away his dignity and strip him of all he knows.  When that happens, the family is likely to be harmed.  In some cases, officers become depressed and commit suicide.  
 
Pima County sheriff's deputy fired from the force in February for failure to meet probationary standards shot and killed his wife…
 
…Anna I. Burns, 45, was shot to death after telling her two daughters to flee their home…
 
…As the children, one 17 and the other an adult, fled the home they heard at least two shots…
 
…Detectives said the couple planned to divorce but were living together while they sold their house…
 
…There are signs that such domestic violence can escalate to a homicide, Johnston said. If the abuser threatens to kill his partner, those threats should be taken seriously.  "More so, if they are threatening suicide while engaging in domestic violence, it is very likely that he will kill his partner and their children, before taking his own life," she said…
 
Police say ex-sheriff's deputy killed wife, self
Arizona Daily Star
Tucson, Arizona | Published: 04.14.2006
 
Tucson police are investigating what they're calling a murder-suicide on the South Side.
 
Detectives said Eric Burns, a former Pima County Sheriff's deputy, fatally wounded his wife, Ana Irma Burns, before shooting himself early this morning in the bedroom of their home, in the 4600 block of South Paseo Rio Bravo. The house is near the Santa Cruz River and Irvington Road.
 
Police were called by the woman's 17-year-old daughter, who had run from the house with her adult sister when their step-father retrieved a handgun around 3 a.m., said Sgt. Decio Hopffer, a Tucson Police Department spokesman. The daughters heard at least two gunshots, he said.
 
The man and woman were dead at the scene, he said.
 
Detectives said the couple planned to divorce but were living together while they sold their house.
 
 
If you are married to an officer of the law and you fear for your safety.  Please contact the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence at 1-800-799-SAFE.  Or you may contact me via my email address at kindlivingpress@aol.com and I will do what I can to provide a plan of action.